Let’s tackle a topic that’s near and dear to many of our hearts: finding the elusive balance between chasing our writing dreams, running our businesses, and keeping our kids alive (or at least reasonably functional).
So, picture this: You’re a proud business owner, with one kid already navigating the wild world of college and another one mere months away from their own high school graduation. On top of all that, you’ve got this burning passion for writing that just won’t quit. Sound familiar? Well, friend, you’re in good company because that’s me, too.
Understanding the Importance of Balance
Now, let’s get one thing straight: balance isn’t just some mythical creature that frolics in the land of unicorns and rainbows. Nope, it’s a real-life necessity, especially when you’re juggling as many hats as we are. But fear not! With a little bit of strategy and a whole lot of caffeine, we can make it work. At least some of the time. (Don’t get any crazy ideas that you are always going to have balance — because you’re not. But if you can have it over 50% of the time — I say you’re doing just fine.)
Setting Realistic Goals
Let’s talk goals. Sure, you’ve got big dreams of becoming the next bestselling author, but Rome wasn’t built in a day, and neither is your literary empire. Take a good, hard look at your schedule (you know — between meetings and FAFSA applications and figuring out what’s for dinner) and carve out some realistic chunks of writing time. Baby steps, my friend, baby steps. (And no, you don’t have to write every day. If you can — fabulous! If you can’t — that’s okay, too.)
Prioritizing Tasks
Ah, priorities. They’re like that annoying friend (we all have one) who always shows up uninvited but ends up being surprisingly helpful. Take a deep breath and make a list of what absolutely, positively needs your attention right this second. Then, and only then, can you tackle that next chapter without feeling like you’re neglecting your responsibilities. (I actually plan my day using ClickUp — and it allows me to assign dates and priorities and it’s oh-so-helpful for keeping track of all the things.)
Creating a Supportive Environment
And can we talk about the importance of having a cheerleading squad in your corner? Rally the troops (yes, even the furry ones) and let them know that Mom or Dad is about to embark on a literary adventure. Set some ground rules, delegate some chores, and tell them that it’s sandwiches for dinner. They’ll be fine, and you can find some precious writing time while they have a ham and cheese sammy.
Flexibility and Adaptability
Life happens. Sometimes the dog gets sick, or your teenager forgets to tell you about a weightlifting meet they have coming up. Roll with the punches, adjust your sails, and remember that even the best-laid plans sometimes go awry.
Self-Care and Well-Being
You must take care of numero uno. You can’t pour from an empty cup, so make sure you’re taking the time to refill your own well of creativity. Go for a walk, take a bubble bath, heck, treat yourself to a fancy coffee every once in a while. You deserve it, my friend.
Celebrating Achievements
And finally, let’s take a moment to celebrate the wins, big and small. Finished a chapter? Treat yourself to a victory dance. Managed to survive another day of parenting without losing your mind? You, my friend, deserve a gold star. Remember, it’s the little things that keep us going in this crazy journey called life.
Balancing writing, business, and parenthood might feel like trying to juggle flaming torches while riding a unicycle, but trust me when I say: you’ve got this. Take a deep breath, lean into the chaos, and remember that you’re not alone in this crazy adventure.
Now go forth and conquer, my fellow wordsmiths. The world is waiting for your story.